In Western society the word ‘relationship’ has become a very broad concept. These days, there aren’t many people who share their entire lives with the same partner. Some people experience bonds, and some people experience connections. These are all experiences!
No-one knows however that an energetic connection is established with each person you have sexual intercourse with –lasting 10 years. This means you remain energetically connected during this whole period.
Now what kind of influence has this on you? If the person you are intimate with is healthy, happy, loving and overflowing with energy, you will also receive this in your system. “How nice!” is what the ego thinks. But in reality there aren’t many people like this around.
This means that in all other cases, also an energetical exchange of everything unpleasant takes place. Your system is then affected energetically, mentally and emotionally by the person you have sex with – and you in turn influence him/her.
An example: imagine that the person you’re intimate with is joyful, healthy, happy and overflowing with energy. But when this person all of a sudden goes through a traumatic event (eg. the death of a relative, or a car accident), he/she has very intense experiences – which you, indirectly, also go through. Then it might occur that you all of a sudden feel vulnerable, become fearful of losing a loved one, experience a drop in energy, become very anxious in traffic, or feel very separate (lonely). This is because thoughts, emotions or fears that weren’t yours, enter your system. Then you attract people, situations and events that will make you experience the same feeling that is the most dominant one in your system – and you create a life you didn’t consciously choose.
I’m definitely not saying that you should stop having sexual relationships. I’m just advising to only do so when you feel love (experience a heart-connection). So you will be more attentive about engaging in random sexual encounters (with all their consequences).
Why do you reckon religions have created the concept of marriage? Because they knew all of this. During the days of the Roman Empire this wasn’t known yet, which also had its corresponding destructive impact on society.
You can also consciously disconnect these energetic connections – so they don’t have to last 10 years. This can only happen when are able you feel independently from the brain. Up till now, not many people are able to do so. Come to our centre to find out, and practice at, how to do this.
See you soon!
Love,
Kaat