On sexuality, part 1:

The biggest business is in the world is… the sex industry! Did you ever wonder why?

The core experience of sexuality is connectedness, and the exchange of energies and love. In other words: sharing and receiving abundance.
The main target public of the sex industry is the male population. Here follows an explanation on the why: all men lead their lives with an inferiority complex. It’s, to greater or lesser extents, engrained in their subconscious: nothing more than a DNA-heritage stemming from the matriarchial era, thousands of years ago.

When the energy in the first chakra cannot flow freely upward towards the 2nd chakra, earth energy will get stuck in the first chakra. This creates a burning sensation in the lower abdominal area – which could be described as a ‘hot egg’. This intense energy block feels discomforting, so the man experiencing it wants to get rid of it. This turns the sexual experience into an act of selfishness, that’s got nothing to do anymore with energy, sharing love, or connectedness.

What impedes the first chakra energy from flowing freely? It’s the emotion of worthlessness (the inferiority complex) that causes an imploding sensation in the belly, about 2 fingers below the navel. This energy slowly pinches up the second chakra, which eventually leads to erectile dysfunctions – the surrounding organs, that means the reproductive organs, don’t receive enough life force in order to function properly. Their functions will weaken, which happens to any other organ that doesn’t get sufficient life energy. Men with strong emotional fields of inferiority have the highest sexual potency – and the most burning egg! Uncontrolled ejaculations mostly occur in this group of men. Also erection problems in later age are more likely to occur with these men.

This is when worthlessness wins. And when darkness succeeds in creating an entire fantasy world out of this energetic block, sex becomes something very distant from what it was originally created for. It will then, more often than not, create experiences of separateness – creating a large energetic emptiness inside the chest area. Which people will then try to fill, or numb. Now you get the picture of how the sex industry stays big, and is responsible for causing numerous destructive scenarios.

This is not a judgment or criticism, but merely a functional explanation on what is possibly going on with you and/or your partner should you recognize some parts of this.

The solution: feeling through the emotional field of worthlessness. Because in the end an emotion is nothing but energy. This way the darkness won’t have something to latch on to anymore.

Next week’s wisdom will be all about the female perspective in this whole story.

Love,
Kaat